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As God Sees and Hears: The readings for December 11, 2023
Mass readings for Monday in the second week of Advent: Isaiah 35:1-10 (God himself will come and save you.) Responsorial Psalm: Isaiah...
Dec 11, 20232 min read


The Night of the Hunter: "It's a Hard World for Little Ones."
“The Night of the Hunter,” released in 1955, is one of my favorite Christmas movies. The flight into Egypt is there, in the two children...
Dec 9, 20234 min read


My Mother's Coffin
In November we remember the dead. I'm remembering my mother. She died two years after this piece was written for Celebration. We waked...
Nov 13, 20234 min read


Confession: Trash for Treasure
Abba John the Little said: We have abandoned a light burden, namely self-criticism, and taken up a heavy burden, namely...
Nov 10, 20234 min read


The Beloved Dead: Between the Killing Wind and Me
My friend, Peter Mazar, of blessed memory, told me about a Hungarian Christmas custom. Once the table was set for the feast, with a...
Nov 6, 20234 min read


All You Holy Women, Pray For Us
Ritual surrounds us. And the best rituals often happen outside of churches. My cousin’s mother-in-law died one early summer day. I had...
Oct 31, 20233 min read


Saints: Those Who Can Bow Low Enough
We are approaching the Feasts of All Saints and All Souls. We are journeying with them. We are journeying towards them. Like trekkers in...
Oct 28, 20233 min read


To Name the World Aright
Genesis is about births and beginnings — the creation of Adam and the inauguration of Adam’s work in the world. So the Lord God formed...
Oct 24, 20233 min read


Above 3 Ounces Everybody Dies
One late spring day, my husband and I boarded the California Zephyr bound for Chicago. We couldn't board at Union Station in Denver as...
Oct 19, 20234 min read


We Forget Who We Are: Ritual and Re-Membering
My ballot arrived today. It’s clean. It’s neat. It’s convenient. I can fill out the ballot at my leisure, alone, unobserved and...
Oct 17, 20234 min read


A Good Dream of a Singing Church
Last week, at the the local Sacred Harp singing, we sang a hymn in honor of a long time friend who is ill. The hymn is called...
Oct 10, 20236 min read


Called by Name: The Holy Work of Bringing the Body of Christ to the Sick
(It's September and weekly religious education has begun in my parish. The call has gone out for another kind of formation: training for...
Sep 18, 20234 min read


Beheld & Beholden: The Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows — September 15
(I wrote this piece for the September 2023 issue of Give Us This Day. With the kind permission of Liturgical Press I'm reprinting it...
Sep 12, 20232 min read


RCIA: The Church Prepares to Give Birth in the Waters of Baptism
(RCIA classes are forming. For those of us who take our faith for granted, catechumens in our communities remind us of the holy hunger to...
Sep 1, 20234 min read


Laudato Si?...Laudato Run! Remembering the Bees
It's August. The bees are, as the saying goes, busy. We have lots of them, but they no longer live here. They just visit. My husband...
Aug 17, 20234 min read


The Mother of the Mother of God: Reflections on the Feast of the Assumption
(This is from a reflection I wrote during my mother's last year of life. My mother's birthday fell three days after the Feast of the...
Aug 12, 20234 min read


Transfiguration: Light in Darkness, Not Light That Brings Darkness
Since 1945, it has been hard to hear the August 6th Transfiguration readings from Daniel without considering another “surging stream of...
Aug 4, 20233 min read


Dear Sister Sunday, Do My Small Children Belong at Mass?
Dear Sister Sunday, I can hardly write this for crying. I went to Mass this morning, a weekday Mass, with my toddlers. I needed guidance...
Jul 28, 20234 min read


Mary Helps Us to Stand Before Her Son
Some Catholics worry that a devotion to Mary can overshadow and maybe undermine one’s devotion to Christ. They warn against a notion of...
Jul 26, 20234 min read


Reverence Before a Feast We Could Never Provide
It is impossible to act alone in the exercise of reverence. That is because reverence uses ceremony as a kind of language of behavior,...
Jul 16, 20235 min read
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